Writer’s block is an excuse. It’s your way of telling yourself you have a reason for not writing. I’m here to tell you, you’re not fooling anyone.
That’s not to say you won’t ever feel stuck. You will. You will often find yourself slammed face first into that big wall called finishing. It will feel like there is no way through, around or over.
Here’s the thing: Every writer who has ever existed feels stuck at some point.
Anyone who says otherwise is either lying or they’re not very good writers. Feeling stuck is part of the writing process. In fact, feeling stuck can be a blessing. Yes, I said a blessing, but more on that later.
How to move past the stuck?
First, tell yourself it will happen. You will get through it. So you may not write the most perfect thing ever written. That’s why we edit. Stop thinking about audience or timeline or what should be.
Then sit down and try one or more of these exercises.
I say this over and over. I take time for freewriting in my one-to-one writing sessions, in The Writer’s Process and everywhere. I say it again and again, because there is no better way to write yourself out of a quandary.
Free write your problem. Start by stating exactly what you’re feeling and what’s holding you back. Vent, bullshit and explain what you’d like your writing to do. Say whatever you need to say. Do this for at least 10-15 minutes.
For a more detailed free writing how-to, check out this month’s writing prompt.
See the words for what they are
Many of us tend to write directly on our computers. After a time, though, we stop paying attention. It’s easy to gloss over paragraphs instead of seeing them.There are many ways to get past this.
These are three favorites.
- Print and read. Take notes by hand directly on the paper.
- Read outloud. Ask a friend or loved one to listen if it feels strange reading to no one.
- Cut and paste. Print, then cut your work into paragraphs. Puzzle piece them back together to find your structure.
Every writer needs a reader.
If you’re in writing deadlock, you’re not the best judge of your own writing. That’s when you need a pair of fresh eyes. Give your writing — in whatever state it’s in — to someone you trust for a read through.
Comments from a good reader can do wonders to shift your writing. A good reader gets you out of your head so you can see what’s working, what’s not working and exactly what needs to be edited and what should be left alone.
I am, by the way, an excellent reader. If you’d like to work with me or have any questions, please e-mail.
Do something that stimulates your creativity without requiring you to measure your work. Paint, sculpt, draw or listen to music.
When you engage in an activity that allows you to improvise, your prefrontal cortex — the part of your brain that governs rational thought — shuts down. Meanwhile, the creative part of your brain goes free.
This allows you to “get out of your own way,” so when you return to writing, where you are thinking, structuring and rationalizing, you return with a rested brain.
Every writer needs to read.
Turn to a favorite author. Open a book from someone you’ve been meaning to read. Read fiction, non-fiction, speeches, politics. Read something you enjoy.
The two biggest benefits of reading?
You change the voice in your head. I don’t usually think like David Sedaris. I tend to be darker, more serious. After reading Me Talk Pretty One Day – which had me laughing from page one — I was able to lighten up a bit.
Reading another’s writing also provides you with a toolbox for your own writing. You see how they handle transitions, their language and how they introduce characters. Books model other methods you can incorporate into your own work.
Remember earlier when i said that being stuck can actually be a blessing?
When you write what you know, what you’ve always written, you have a pattern. You know what you’re doing, because you’ve done it before. Many times.
Which is, I’m sorry to say, boring.
When you’re stopped, it’s often because you’re doing something you’ve never done before. That means you’re stretching yourself as a writer. You’re improving, and soon enough you will break through to a new level. You’ll be a stronger, more agile, better writer.
Remind yourself of that when you feel stuck. That and try these tips. You’ll be amazed at what happens.
Have you tried any of these? How did they work for you?
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